If you are a disorganized wedding planner looking for ways to stay organized as a wedding planner in 2023, you are in the right place. Staying organized as a wedding planner is CRUCIAL, but can I be honest with you? It’s not always easy. Not at all. After all, you’ve got weddings with a million tasks on your to-do list, you have vendors who seem to always need five follow-ups, and sometimes you even have a client who seems so on top of it that you start to question why they even hired you.
Do you feel seen right now? Listen, I hate to be so blunt, but if you stick around, it’s kinda what you get around here! Also, full disclosure – almost every wedding planner I know has felt like they are “winging it” at times–you are not alone! But it doesn’t have to be this way.
So, take a deep breath, my disorganized friend, you are in the right place.
Today, I’m going to walk you through four relatively painless steps to stay organized as a wedding planner, whether you’re new to the industry or an OG.

Grab a Pen and Paper, and Let’s Map Out Your Customer Workflow!
Before we dive into the exciting stuff (like using tools to automate and systemize), we need to figure out what your overall customer journey looks like. If you want to get organized and make the best use of any software or automation tool, you’ll need to understand what touchpoints and milestones you already have (or want to have!) with your customers.
Unfortunately, you can’t just sign up for software and instantly have systems and processes in place (but oh gosh – how I wish you could!).
Our first step is to map out your client’s journey from start to finish.
Write down EXACTLY what most of your clients experience from the onboarding phase to the offboarding phase, including what you do behind the scenes. Include each individual touchpoint and milestone that you have with your clients.
Mapping out your client’s journey can feel like a mammoth task, so first, take a breath.
If you’re having a hard time with this exercise and feel like you have no idea what the eff you are doing (because, let’s be honest – the internet made becoming a wedding planner look so easy!), I have my entire signature full planning service guide here. She’s THICK. Whether you are starting from zero or just want an easier way to skip to the finish line and feel confident AF in your workflow, it WILL be one of the best investments you make this year. Be sure to check it out because it does ALL the heavy lifting for you.
Next, You NEED a Project Management System – Pronto!
Once you’ve mapped out your client journey (or let me do it for you), it’s time for you to figure out how you can build that customer journey into a project management software. A project management software allows you to manage the planning process from start to finish–and even collaborate directly with your clients.
There are a few options to choose from, but my favorite? Asana.
Why I Love Asana for Wedding Planners
I’ve used Asana for a long time. There are so many advantages to implementing a tool like Asana into your business, but here are just a few things it can do for you:
- Increase your productivity by using template workflows
- Avoid making costly mistakes because you forgot a task or deadline
- Helps you collaborate with team members on weddings and other projects
- Enhances your client experience as a dedicated planning platform.
- Allows you to collaborate with clients on their wedding
- Controls the planning tempo and cadence with your clients FOR you.
Not only does Asana effortlessly integrate with some of the other tools I know you are using, but with the right setup, it can also replace some of the more costly tools you might be using (like Aisle Planner!).
By the way – if you are curious about how I use Asana in my business coaching biz (and also want to score a 10% off coupon code for Asana), head here.
Look for Steps to Automate and Systematize In Your Workflow
Now, you should have your client workflow mapped out, and project management software picked out (Is it Asana? I hope so!). Next, I want you to go back over your steps and see what you can automate and systematize in your client journey.
Side note: not everything can be automated as a wedding planner
Let me just address an unfortunate realization you are bound to come across as you stay organized as a wedding planner – not everything can be automated. As a wedding planner business coach for over a decade now, one of the biggest mistakes I see wedding planners make (as they start to implement better systems and processes into their business) is trying to automate everything. Not everything can (or should) be automated. We offer an incredibly personal service, and you should lean into that when you can.
With that said, I know you are busy! Although not everything can be automated, reminders to check in on your couples and finding new ways to surprise and delight them can be automated, making it easy to stay organized as a wedding planner. So while I don’t recommend adding a bunch of automated emails like “60 days to go!”, I do recommend adding reminders for yourself for important dates (and “spontaneous” check-ins!). Where you can’t automate, systematize.

Finally, Use Templates To Rinse + Repeat (And Stay Organized as a Wedding Planner)
I’m a big fan of templates – which is why you’ll find a ton of them in my business tools shop for wedding planners. If you don’t have a lot of templates right now – it can feel very overwhelming to start creating them. After all, as I mentioned earlier, there are likely dozens of steps in your signature process. Are you supposed to write all of those emails and brochures at once?
When it comes to creating templates in your business, I recommend working with the client-facing elements first. Start with your onboarding workflow, and tweak and template as much as possible until you reach offboarding.
Working chronologically through the client journey will help you experience it as if you were the client, which will help you uncover any blind spots. It will also give you space for new ideas.
If you don’t have a ton of time to get organized as a wedding planner, you have two options:
- Create templates as you go. Don’t forget to add them to your project management tool as you write those emails or send those proposals!
- Head straight to the shop and pick up everything you need. You know I’ve got you.
What About Systems and Processes for Working ON Your Business?
If you are asking yourself this question, kudos. Yes, you do need to stay organized in your business as well. It’s not JUST important for your couples, after all. While I do recommend perfecting the three stages of working with clients first (Planning, Design, and Execution), you may want to check out this blog post next as Sarahna talks about ALL the systems you should have in your wedding business.
Looking for Candid Wedding Planning Business Advice and the Best Templates in the Wedding Industry On the Regular?
In every month of the Planner’s Playbook, I include templates and swipe files to make your job as a wedding planner easier. If you know you want to elevate your wedding planning business this year, you can count on me to deliver exactly what you need when you need it. So the only question is, are you ready to become a Playbooker?
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There are certain people you meet in business who just get it.
Who love the work they do, the clients they serve, and have a deep passion for the wedding industry.
Frances Ledgewood is one of those people.
She’s the heart and hands behind @ledgewoodfinestationery, but more than that, she’s a visionary.
A long-time podcast listener, private client, and someone I’ve had the absolute joy of mentoring as she’s taken bold steps to grow a brand that’s as intentional as it is iconic.
In this week’s Behind the Brand, I’m sitting down with Frances to talk about building a business rooted in heart, legacy, and excellence.
We talk about her early days, how she’s built her brand, grown a team, and stepped into a bold new season of leadership.
You’re going to feel so inspired hearing about Frances journey — and I can’t wait for you to tune in!
Comment 191 and I’ll DM you a link to listen! 💜💜
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PSA for my OGs ✨
You’ve got the talent and the experience... but you already know… it’s not as easy as it used to be. And it’s only getting harder.
The pros who will actually survive the next generation of business are the ones prioritizing visibility.
I’m seeing insanely talented and experienced OGs in our industry being overlooked because they’re not showing up.
And if that’s you, I have a question...
👀 What are you going to do about it?
Comment 190 and I will send you the link to listen to this week’s episode of The Power in Purpose where I’m sharing the 5 ways I see wedding pros playing small (and what it’s costing you).

Everyone’s talking about how AI is making everybody sound the same.
I’m here to tell you they’re wrong.
Once you know how to train ChatGPT on your brand voice? It can quickly become your unfair advantage.
In this week’s episode, I’m talking about:
👉 What “training” AI really looks like
👉 How to make it sound exactly like you
👉 Why this is the skill that will set you apart from your competition this year
And if you’re ready to go beyond listening and actually do the work?
Join me later this month for my live workshop where I’ll walk you through the exact process of training ChatGPT on your brand voice so it becomes your full-service marketing assistant.
Wedding pros, don’t sit this one out. Comment 189 and I will send you the link to listen now (and workshop details so you can register!)
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Over the last few months, I’ve taught hundreds of wedding planners how to use ChatGPT like an actual planning assistant — not just a caption writer.
And every time, I hear the same thing:
💬 “Why didn’t I do this sooner?!”
Because once you know how to train ChatGPT to sound like you, think like you, and support your business like a real team member… things get a LOT easier.
✔️ Timelines
✔️ Budgets
✔️ Client communication
✔️ Design briefs
✔️ Vendor emails
✔️ Rehearsal schedules
✔️ Wedding weekend logistics
I’ll show you how to do all of it in my AI Masterclass for Wedding Planners — and it only takes 90 minutes.
👇 Comment MASTERCLASS below and I’ll DM you the link!
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