In this short and sweet episode of The Power in Purpose podcast, I’m diving into a topic that’s been coming up a lot lately in my mastermind, Wedding Pro Insiders—trusting your gut when making business decisions. We all know how overwhelming it can be to sift through the countless opinions and strategies thrown at us daily, and it’s easy to feel lost in a sea of conflicting advice.
Today, I’m sharing my thoughts on why you should listen to your intuition and how it’s already guided you to where you are today. I also talk about a simple yet powerful technique called the sway test, which my business coach Amber Housley introduced to me. This test is a great way to tap into your intuition and help you make decisions when you’re feeling uncertain.
I truly believe that your inputs directly affect your outputs in business. That’s why it’s so important to turn down the noise and give yourself space to think clearly. In this episode, I encourage you to trust that inner voice more often, whether you’re deciding on your next marketing move, handling client relationships, or making big business changes. Your intuition has more power than you think!

In this episode about how to make decisions in your wedding business:
- [00:47]: Trusting Your Gut in Business Decisions
- [04:07]: The Sway Test
- [07:01]: Empowering Yourself Through Intuition
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Candice (00:01.359)
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Candice (00:47.64)
Hey there, friend. Shorty episode for you today. I'm feeling called to talk to you about trusting your gut in your business. It's a conversation that we've been having a lot behind the scenes in my mastermind, Wedding Pro Insiders. And I just feel like I want to come here and talk to you about making decisions in your business and why you should trust your gut reaction.
I know that you look to a lot of spaces and places to guide you on this journey of growing your business, starting your business, scaling your business. And I also know that sometimes it can be really overwhelming, the amount of opinions and strategies and hot takes that people have. sometimes you can really feel like your head is spinning. You're not sure which direction to go. Advice is conflicting.
and you're just not sure what to do in your business. A good example is if you were to go on threads right now, which by the way, I love threads, but it is the most self-righteous place on the internet. Really and truly. If you were to go there right now, I guarantee you would see 50 different ways of doing one thing. All of the different ways conflicting with each other and each person very steadfast.
in their beliefs about why their way of doing something is right. And when we're at a crossroads in our business or when we're making decisions in our business, we often look to experts, whether it's here on podcasts or on threads or Instagram, to guide us and to help us. It can be overwhelming sifting through the information. And to be honest, some of the information isn't very good.
It's not necessarily right for you. In these situations where you feel like you don't know what to do, I want you to trust your gut because your gut has gotten you where you are right now. Your gut really hasn't failed you. Maybe one or two times you can think, boy, my intuition was off. But more often than not, your gut has guided you to the business you have today and to the life that you have in a lot of the big decisions that you've made.
Candice (03:09.175)
And we can lose sight of our own intuition and our own structure for decision-making when we listen too much to outside influences or we think that outside influences are the be-all end-all of answers for our business. So this is just some encouragement for you today to trust your gut, to lean on your gut and your intuition when you need to make a decision in your business.
And one technique that my business coach shared with me that might work for you that taps into your intuition is called the sway test. And I've done the sway test many times. I want to shout out Amber Housley, who has been my business coach for jackass years forever and who will forever be my business coach. I always go back to Amber when I need help making decisions because she is the best at helping me make decisions. But there was one decision I was trying to make.
where she imparted on me that I needed to look within and to find the answer. So she gave me the sway test. You can also Google the sway test, but here's how it goes. Here's how you can tap into your gut and into intuition the next time you're not sure what decision to make. I want you to stand with your feet flat on the ground, preferably barefoot so you can feel the ground beneath your feet. And I want you to ask yourself some questions that you know the answer to, yes or no questions. Something like, my name is Candice.
And my favorite color is orange. Yes or no questions. And what you're going to see is that your body naturally sways. It either sways forward ever so slightly, or it sways backward. It sways forward ever so slightly as a yes, and it sways backward ever so slightly as a no. I'm not talking wild pendulum swings. I'm talking the gentlest move. You'll feel it kind of in your shoulders. It comes from your upper back, your shoulders.
feel a little bit of a sway. And it's said that that's your intuition giving you the answer. So you stand there, feet flat on the ground, ask yourself some calibration questions. We got to make sure our sway is on point. And then I want you to ask it a question that you need clarity on. Think of it like your magic eight ball, but it is your body. It is your gut and in your intuition. Give it a try.
Candice (05:34.103)
And when the noise, the outside side noise is just too great and you feel like I can't listen to another expert tell me what I'm doing wrong or tell me what I should be doing now, do yourself a favor and turn off the noise. Because I believe your inputs directly affect your outputs. What you input into your business, into your mind, directly affects
how you produce and what you output into your business in the world. I'm going to do a whole podcast episode on inputs versus outputs, but turn down the noise. Give yourself space. I find that I make some of my best decisions when my mind is clear and not influenced by outside stuff. I also find that I make my best decisions when I ask Amber what I should do on Boxer and when I do the sway test.
That's what I wanted to impart upon you today is to trust your gut and your intuition. It's likely never steered you wrong. We need to actually just really tap into our own intuition to guide us in our business and the decisions that we make, whether it's hiring new employees, saying yes to a client, firing a client, how you want to respond to a client, how you want to handle a situation, what you should be doing for your marketing, what you should be doing for your finances, what you should be doing for your pricing, all of that.
can be guided by your intuition. You don't need a coach. You don't always need a guru or guide to help you. A lot of the answers, they lie within. All right, friend, I told you it was a shorty episode. We don't even have any ads today. No intros, but definitely an outro. I want to remind you there's so much power in your purpose. Cheers to trusting your intuition, and I'll see you next time.
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Being a business owner is hard, but it’s especially hard if you don’t have a supportive partner.
I’m so grateful to have such a supportive spouse who supports my every idea and lets me do my thing. 💜 @jasonkistoo
Photography @c10ike
You were made to believe your business was too unique to fit any software. I disagree. 🤍
For years, every tool on the market was so rigid, so clunky, so clearly built for someone else, that you learned to blame yourself.
“I guess I just do things differently.”
“I guess my business is too specific.”
“I guess I’ll keep duct-taping five tools together and make it work.”
But that was never a you problem. That was a software problem.
That’s exactly why I built CUE. Not a rigid box you have to contort your business to fit but a tool that flexes to how you actually work, whatever kind of planner you are. Destination, luxury, micro, solo, teams of ten, coordinators, cultural celebrations, every couple and every kind of love. All of it belongs here.
And because Cue was built by a former wedding planner, with years of experience coaching other wedding planners, I know exactly what you need (and if I miss something? I’m only an email away and will add it to my roadmap).
Comment CUEWAITLIST and I’ll send you the link. 💜💜
I haven’t worked this hard or this much in years. I’ll be honest, it’s been both rewarding and exhausting. There’s a lot happening behind the scenes and so much to do. But the one thing driving it all is my passion to help as many wedding and event planners find a forever home for their business that makes the work you do easier. We are so close to being ready 🙏
A special thank you to every client of mine who has encouraged me and cheered me on, and every beta tester who has started using Cue. Your feedback, excitement, bug spotting, ideas, and presence has meant more than I can ever express!
I also want to thank everyone who has signed up for the waitlist, shared Cue, or reached out to me personally. I am SO excited for you to see what we are building for you and your excitement for Cue has motivated me beyond what I thought I was capable of. 💜
There’s still time to get on the waitlist for Cue and see what the fuss is all about. Comment CUEWAITLIST and I’ll send you the link to get in line to be the first to try out Cue when we launch on 12/1!
Still catching up on sharing our April mastermind retreat (because apparently I need six months to recover from hosting 🤣). Here’s day three: WPI at sea.
Every year, I treat the ladies to a catamaran cruise here in Barbados, and every year, I remember why this is a nonnegotiable on our itinerary!
We swam with turtles, had a beautiful lunch, drank wine, did tequila shots, and talked about work and life while floating around in the Caribbean. Honestly, a very productive day in my books!!
One of my favorite things about coaching these women is getting to know who they are outside of their businesses. And getting to spoil a group of women who are usually the ones making everything special for everyone else? I’ll happily do that every year.
I love these ladies. I love this little island. And I love that my job brings us all together, preferably on a boat with someone else handling lunch.
Applications for WeddingPro Insiders are open, and we have a handful of spots. If you want to spend the next year working on your business with us, then come hang out at my house in April 2027 and experience this for yourself, I’d love for you to apply.
Head to the link in my bio for the details, pricing, and application. Come meet your people. 💜💜💜
Special shout out to @breezy_days_barbados for the *incredible* day and to @c10ike for the photos!!
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