In this short and sweet episode of The Power in Purpose podcast, I’m diving into a topic that’s been coming up a lot lately in my mastermind, Wedding Pro Insiders—trusting your gut when making business decisions. We all know how overwhelming it can be to sift through the countless opinions and strategies thrown at us daily, and it’s easy to feel lost in a sea of conflicting advice.
Today, I’m sharing my thoughts on why you should listen to your intuition and how it’s already guided you to where you are today. I also talk about a simple yet powerful technique called the sway test, which my business coach Amber Housley introduced to me. This test is a great way to tap into your intuition and help you make decisions when you’re feeling uncertain.
I truly believe that your inputs directly affect your outputs in business. That’s why it’s so important to turn down the noise and give yourself space to think clearly. In this episode, I encourage you to trust that inner voice more often, whether you're deciding on your next marketing move, handling client relationships, or making big business changes. Your intuition has more power than you think!

In this episode about how to make decisions in your wedding business:
- [00:47]: Trusting Your Gut in Business Decisions
- [04:07]: The Sway Test
- [07:01]: Empowering Yourself Through Intuition
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Candice (00:01.359)
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Candice (00:47.64)
Hey there, friend. Shorty episode for you today. I'm feeling called to talk to you about trusting your gut in your business. It's a conversation that we've been having a lot behind the scenes in my mastermind, Wedding Pro Insiders. And I just feel like I want to come here and talk to you about making decisions in your business and why you should trust your gut reaction.
I know that you look to a lot of spaces and places to guide you on this journey of growing your business, starting your business, scaling your business. And I also know that sometimes it can be really overwhelming, the amount of opinions and strategies and hot takes that people have. sometimes you can really feel like your head is spinning. You're not sure which direction to go. Advice is conflicting.
and you're just not sure what to do in your business. A good example is if you were to go on threads right now, which by the way, I love threads, but it is the most self-righteous place on the internet. Really and truly. If you were to go there right now, I guarantee you would see 50 different ways of doing one thing. All of the different ways conflicting with each other and each person very steadfast.
in their beliefs about why their way of doing something is right. And when we're at a crossroads in our business or when we're making decisions in our business, we often look to experts, whether it's here on podcasts or on threads or Instagram, to guide us and to help us. It can be overwhelming sifting through the information. And to be honest, some of the information isn't very good.
It's not necessarily right for you. In these situations where you feel like you don't know what to do, I want you to trust your gut because your gut has gotten you where you are right now. Your gut really hasn't failed you. Maybe one or two times you can think, boy, my intuition was off. But more often than not, your gut has guided you to the business you have today and to the life that you have in a lot of the big decisions that you've made.
Candice (03:09.175)
And we can lose sight of our own intuition and our own structure for decision-making when we listen too much to outside influences or we think that outside influences are the be-all end-all of answers for our business. So this is just some encouragement for you today to trust your gut, to lean on your gut and your intuition when you need to make a decision in your business.
And one technique that my business coach shared with me that might work for you that taps into your intuition is called the sway test. And I've done the sway test many times. I want to shout out Amber Housley, who has been my business coach for jackass years forever and who will forever be my business coach. I always go back to Amber when I need help making decisions because she is the best at helping me make decisions. But there was one decision I was trying to make.
where she imparted on me that I needed to look within and to find the answer. So she gave me the sway test. You can also Google the sway test, but here's how it goes. Here's how you can tap into your gut and into intuition the next time you're not sure what decision to make. I want you to stand with your feet flat on the ground, preferably barefoot so you can feel the ground beneath your feet. And I want you to ask yourself some questions that you know the answer to, yes or no questions. Something like, my name is Candice.
And my favorite color is orange. Yes or no questions. And what you're going to see is that your body naturally sways. It either sways forward ever so slightly, or it sways backward. It sways forward ever so slightly as a yes, and it sways backward ever so slightly as a no. I'm not talking wild pendulum swings. I'm talking the gentlest move. You'll feel it kind of in your shoulders. It comes from your upper back, your shoulders.
feel a little bit of a sway. And it's said that that's your intuition giving you the answer. So you stand there, feet flat on the ground, ask yourself some calibration questions. We got to make sure our sway is on point. And then I want you to ask it a question that you need clarity on. Think of it like your magic eight ball, but it is your body. It is your gut and in your intuition. Give it a try.
Candice (05:34.103)
And when the noise, the outside side noise is just too great and you feel like I can't listen to another expert tell me what I'm doing wrong or tell me what I should be doing now, do yourself a favor and turn off the noise. Because I believe your inputs directly affect your outputs. What you input into your business, into your mind, directly affects
how you produce and what you output into your business in the world. I'm going to do a whole podcast episode on inputs versus outputs, but turn down the noise. Give yourself space. I find that I make some of my best decisions when my mind is clear and not influenced by outside stuff. I also find that I make my best decisions when I ask Amber what I should do on Boxer and when I do the sway test.
That's what I wanted to impart upon you today is to trust your gut and your intuition. It's likely never steered you wrong. We need to actually just really tap into our own intuition to guide us in our business and the decisions that we make, whether it's hiring new employees, saying yes to a client, firing a client, how you want to respond to a client, how you want to handle a situation, what you should be doing for your marketing, what you should be doing for your finances, what you should be doing for your pricing, all of that.
can be guided by your intuition. You don't need a coach. You don't always need a guru or guide to help you. A lot of the answers, they lie within. All right, friend, I told you it was a shorty episode. We don't even have any ads today. No intros, but definitely an outro. I want to remind you there's so much power in your purpose. Cheers to trusting your intuition, and I'll see you next time.
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It’s time for a come to Jesus moment…
If you want a wedding business in two years, you’ve got to stop letting Threads hijack your brand.
You’re drowning in hot takes from people who’ve never managed a 200-guest wedding, handled sensitive family issues with care, or built a real business ROOTED in hospitality.
And worse? You might be reposting their stuff.
Every time you drag a client, mock a fellow vendor, or echo some out-of-touch “truth” that doesn’t reflect how you actually work… you chip away at your credibility.
Your future clients are watching. So are your peers. And the people you want to refer you.
You don’t have to sanitize your voice.
But you do need to be intentional about what you’re amplifying.
I’m all for an occasional gos session or needing to vent about real frustrations. But GIRRRRLLL, that’s what your best friend and momma are for!!
Swipe through if you’ve been feeling off lately. This might be why.
And a good test to run any “hot take” through is something my friend @c10ike says a lot:
✨ Is it necessary?
✨ Is it kind?
✨ Is it true?

Reputation isn’t built in the spotlight. It’s built in the quiet moments when you choose not to take the bait.
In this clip from the latest episode, I’m breaking down one of the most overlooked but powerful ways to build a brand that commands respect: staying out of the bullshit.
👉 That means stepping away from the gossip-filled group chats.
👉 That means not chiming in when someone starts bashing another vendor.
👉 That means not running to threads when you see another vendor f*cking up.
Reputation isn’t just what you say about yourself. It’s what others feel safe saying around you. And if people feel like you’re a safe space to gossip, chances are they’ll feel just as safe gossiping about you.
This episode is your reminder to keep it clean. Stay client-focused. Surround yourself with good people. Let your reputation speak louder than any tea ever could.
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Success leaves clues 👏
I used to think successful people had something I didn’t.
More confidence.
More clarity.
More certainty.
But then I looked closer.
And here’s what I saw:
They weren’t waiting to feel ready.
They weren’t waiting to be chosen.
They weren’t waiting AT ALL.
They moved with the fear.
They spoke up despite the self-doubt.
They gave themselves permission before anyone else ever did.
Because success? It’s not about perfection. It’s about boldness.
✨ This week’s podcast episode is all about that shift — the one that luxury clients can feel when they’re deciding whether to trust you. And the one that might be keeping you stuck.
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You didn’t start your business because it was safe.
You started it because something deep inside you said yes—even if no one else could see the vision.
That was audacity.
That was courage.
That was you, betting on yourself.
This week on the podcast, I’m inviting you back to that version of yourself.
The one who launched the site.
Named the business.
Started marketing without a roadmap.
Took bold action before you felt ready.
Because she didn’t disappear. She’s just buried under the pressure, the fear, the expectations. And it’s time to call her back.
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