Have you been finding it’s getting harder and harder to communicate with Gen Z customers? Maybe you’re getting ghosted more often, or you find people are more resistant to hop on a Zoom call than they used to be? In the past, we’ve managed to stick to tried-and-true communication methods. Most of us have come to love communicating exclusively via email or our preferred software, where we can keep everything organized and never miss a beat. But the truth is that the times are changing, and so are our customers.
As a wedding business coach, I’ve noticed that this year has thrown a curveball for many in the industry. Bookings are slower, and the competition is fiercer. I want to share three ways to adapt your communication, especially when dealing with Gen Z customers, to help you book more couples!

1. Offer Up Text Messaging
If you just cringed a little, I get it. Let’s face it—adding another communication channel can be a bit daunting. Keeping track of texts on top of emails and phone calls is a LOT. But here’s the thing: today’s consumers expect it. If you’re not willing to text, someone else will be, and that could mean losing potential clients.
You’ve probably heard this before, but Gen Z thrives on immediacy. Texting offers quick and direct communication, making your response time feel almost instantaneous. Moreover, a text feels more personal and less formal, creating a stronger connection between you and your clients.
If right now you’re saying, “OK, Candice, but how TF do I manage this?” I highly recommend using tools like HoneyBook to streamline all your communications, which now INCLUDE text messages (y’all know I already love Honeybook, and I’m just so grateful they have this feature, to be honest). Whether you use Honeybook or not, you’ll need to figure out something to help you stay organized without feeling overwhelmed.
2. Be Open To Booking In The DMs
We’ve all seen those Instagram bios that say, “Please inquire via my website, not DMs.” And listen, I love a good boundary. But while that might have worked in the past, it’s becoming less accepted. Similarly to texting, Gen Z loves the immediacy of social media direct messages (DMs), and they often prefer to initiate conversations there.
There are good reasons for you to consider opening up your DMs too! First, DMs make you more approachable, which can be a great way to show off your modern, customer-centric business model. Your customers do NOT want someone who feels archaic and not “with the times,” and having conversations in the DMs is a great way to stay connected.
The second reason is that it’s a lot easier for them to inquire (which is a good thing for you if you wish you were getting more bookings lately!). For many, DMing is easier than filling out a contact form on a website. If your calendar is looking light, you need to meet your potential clients where they are.
With that said, I should address the negatives (which are likely what prompted the “Please inquire via my website, not DMs.” messages in the first place). How the heck do you keep track of everything?
While I don’t have a magic wand for you, I will say that you need to develop a system that works for you. Whether it’s setting aside specific times each day to check your DMs or using social media management tools, it’s your job as the business owner to adapt and make it work.
3. Offer Phone Calls Instead of Zoom
Listen – you’re not the only one feeling Zoom fatigue. After endless virtual meetings over the past four years, your potential clients may not be too excited about jumping on yet another video call. We all want to save time and just email, right? And while you might still need that personal touch to gauge if it’s a good fit, I want you to consider offering phone calls at the very least instead.
Phone calls feel less formal and less invasive than video calls, making it easier for busy couples to fit into their schedules. Plus, there’s beauty in the simplicity of it. Sometimes, simpler is better. A phone call can be just as effective for getting to know your clients without adding the stress of video conferencing.
While your customers might be more and more eager to keep conversation to text, DMs, and email, if you do insist on having a call before booking (which I think makes sense for ensuring a personality fit), a phone call might just be the happy middle ground you’ve been wanting.
Bonus Tip: List Your Prices on Your Website
As you adapt your communication styles to the changing times and Gen Z customers, there’s one more thing you should consider: listing prices on your website. Today’s couples are less willing to reach out without having at least a general idea of what you charge. I don’t make the rules (and some of them I don’t even like lol), but transparency is key in this digital age, and providing upfront pricing can set you apart as a trustworthy and straightforward choice.
Plus, listing your prices not only saves time for both you and potential clients but also attracts serious inquiries from those who are already aware of your rates. It fosters an environment of openness, helping clients feel more comfortable and confident in their decision to contact you. By showcasing your pricing, you demonstrate respect for their time and budget constraints, which can be a significant factor in building a strong initial connection.
Want to hear me talk more about the nuances of this? Watch this Youtube video here!

Adapting Your Communication Style To Book More Gen Z Customers
At the end of the day, adapting your communication strategies to cater to Gen Z customers in the wedding industry is no longer just an option—it’s a necessity. By offering text messaging, being open to booking inquiries via DMs, and considering phone calls instead of Zoom, you can better meet the expectations of today’s couples. And hey, I’m here to support you every step of the way!
Each month inside the Planner’s Playbook, I’m diving deep into one aspect of your wedding business so that we can all improve together, and offering office hours where you can come and ask me ANYTHING related to your wedding business (including how to appeal to more Gen Z customers and fill your calendar!). Get on the waitlist now for special bonuses when we open the doors next!
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I’m so grateful to have such a supportive spouse who supports my every idea and lets me do my thing. 💜 @jasonkistoo
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You were made to believe your business was too unique to fit any software. I disagree. 🤍
For years, every tool on the market was so rigid, so clunky, so clearly built for someone else, that you learned to blame yourself.
“I guess I just do things differently.”
“I guess my business is too specific.”
“I guess I’ll keep duct-taping five tools together and make it work.”
But that was never a you problem. That was a software problem.
That’s exactly why I built CUE. Not a rigid box you have to contort your business to fit but a tool that flexes to how you actually work, whatever kind of planner you are. Destination, luxury, micro, solo, teams of ten, coordinators, cultural celebrations, every couple and every kind of love. All of it belongs here.
And because Cue was built by a former wedding planner, with years of experience coaching other wedding planners, I know exactly what you need (and if I miss something? I’m only an email away and will add it to my roadmap).
Comment CUEWAITLIST and I’ll send you the link. 💜💜
I haven’t worked this hard or this much in years. I’ll be honest, it’s been both rewarding and exhausting. There’s a lot happening behind the scenes and so much to do. But the one thing driving it all is my passion to help as many wedding and event planners find a forever home for their business that makes the work you do easier. We are so close to being ready 🙏
A special thank you to every client of mine who has encouraged me and cheered me on, and every beta tester who has started using Cue. Your feedback, excitement, bug spotting, ideas, and presence has meant more than I can ever express!
I also want to thank everyone who has signed up for the waitlist, shared Cue, or reached out to me personally. I am SO excited for you to see what we are building for you and your excitement for Cue has motivated me beyond what I thought I was capable of. 💜
There’s still time to get on the waitlist for Cue and see what the fuss is all about. Comment CUEWAITLIST and I’ll send you the link to get in line to be the first to try out Cue when we launch on 12/1!
Still catching up on sharing our April mastermind retreat (because apparently I need six months to recover from hosting 🤣). Here’s day three: WPI at sea.
Every year, I treat the ladies to a catamaran cruise here in Barbados, and every year, I remember why this is a nonnegotiable on our itinerary!
We swam with turtles, had a beautiful lunch, drank wine, did tequila shots, and talked about work and life while floating around in the Caribbean. Honestly, a very productive day in my books!!
One of my favorite things about coaching these women is getting to know who they are outside of their businesses. And getting to spoil a group of women who are usually the ones making everything special for everyone else? I’ll happily do that every year.
I love these ladies. I love this little island. And I love that my job brings us all together, preferably on a boat with someone else handling lunch.
Applications for WeddingPro Insiders are open, and we have a handful of spots. If you want to spend the next year working on your business with us, then come hang out at my house in April 2027 and experience this for yourself, I’d love for you to apply.
Head to the link in my bio for the details, pricing, and application. Come meet your people. 💜💜💜
Special shout out to @breezy_days_barbados for the *incredible* day and to @c10ike for the photos!!
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