Oh boy, this topic is near and dear to me. When I decided to become a wedding planner, I was sick at home binge-watching some wedding TV shows, and before you knew it, I picked up a pile of wedding magazines and decided I would be a wedding planner. And yes, I had no idea what the heck I was actually doing. I have good news, though (15 years later!) – if you’re looking to build your portfolio as a wedding planner, you are in the right place.
Let’s just say I’m about to save you a ton of time and money, and maybe, just maybe, you can learn with a little less trial and error.
Building your portfolio is often one of the first and most anxiety-inducing steps you need to take when you decide to open your wedding business. In marketing, the eye buys, and it can be hard to reel in your ideal clients if you don’t have a portfolio representing the type of work you want to do.
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Okay, now back to what you came here for.
First, styled shoots are one of my favorite ways to build your portfolio because they show YOUR vision and allow you to connect with other local wedding vendors.
If you’ve been in business for a while, you probably realized that some of the over-the-top micro weddings you have been admiring on Instagram are, in fact, styled shoots.
I believe that when you’re just starting out, styled shoots are one of the absolute best ways to build your portfolio as a wedding planner because you are collaborating and networking with other vendors and showcasing the work YOU want to be doing. You have control here!
Hosting styled shoots is a great way to ensure you’re not putting out photos of mediocre budget weddings (from the clients who have hired you) and wondering why that’s all you’re attracting five years later.
You don’t want the first event you design to be on somebody’s wedding day. After all, with weddings, there are no do-overs. Styled shoots can be more expensive than other ways to build your portfolio (it’s not uncommon for “hard costs” to be shared between vendors) but when you are first starting out, you don’t always (ever!) have the type of clients that you wish would hire you.
You know… the ones with the six and seven-figure wedding budgets throwing magazine-worthy weddings that give you instant street cred.
Second, book a brand shoot to help your customers connect with YOU and fill the gaps in your portfolio when your photos are scarce.
Ultimately, there are dozens – if not hundreds – of wedding planners in your area who do the same thing as you. The good news is, nobody does it quite like you.
There IS more than enough room, trust me. Branding photoshoots are a great way to show behind the scenes… even if you don’t have a ton of real ‘behind the scenes’ yet.
Branding photos are also a great way to show that you mean business. After all, someone who is willing to invest in high-quality brand photography is somebody to take seriously. Trust me – your selfies aren’t doing that for you. People want to invest in people who invest in themselves.
You can showcase your sparkling personality while rearranging a tablescape and straightening out some of that luxury cutlery you rented for the day.
Next, create behind-the-scenes content for social media.
I don’t know if you follow me on the ‘gram, but I rarely post on my feed anymore. I always try and show up on stories because it’s way easier to do on the fly (and a lot more fun!). Even if you don’t have any real weddings yet, you can show tons of behind the scenes of you at different rental companies (learning more about what they have to offer), venue tours around your area, you setting up your wedding planning software, or even putting together a design board.
Even if some of the work is just hypothetical at this point, the options for behind-the-scenes content is endless, and it is a great marketing tool. Remember – you don’t need to know everything – you just need to know more than your ideal client.
Finally, use stock images to round out your portfolio.
I’ve talked about using stock images before because I think they’re a great option when starting out. Seriously (and I’m willing to jump on my soapbox for this), there is no excuse for stealing images in 2021. Pinterest doesn’t count as a source! I can’t even tell you how many times my work has been stolen, and it’s a good way to tarnish your reputation in the industry fast.
I started my own wedding business 13 years ago, and y’all, the only available stock images were janky. Nothing like we have today. However, I still used them all over my website and replaced them as I acquired more content. A few of my faves are Haute Stock and Styled Stock Society, and yes, it’s worth having a subscription for higher quality stuff!
You aren’t going to have a magazine-worthy portfolio overnight, but it really doesn’t need to take as long as you think!
I’m always walking the line between keeping it real and telling you that I believe from the bottom of my heart that you CAN have the business you want (whatever that looks like!). I hope this has given you some encouragement to put yourself out there and start building your portfolio as a wedding planner. You don’t need to play small (because let’s be honest, it gets boring).
If you are picking up what I’m putting down and want some more, I would love to see you inside The Planner’s Playbook. Trust me, you are going to want to join us now before the doors close to snag some sweet bonuses and perks.
Let’s round up how you can build your wedding planner portfolio when you’re just starting out:
- Create, design, and plan a styled wedding shoot.
This helps build your portfolio and shows off your signature style.
- Hire a photographer to do a brand shoot.
You’ll be able to share images of yourself on social media and your website to create a connection with potential clients.
- Create behind-the-scenes content.
Your phone has a powerful camera – use it to create content showing you working on building your business.
- Use stock images for your marketing.
There’s nothing wrong with using stock images to help grow your business!
Want more? Check out this video on my YouTube channel ↓
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12 years of being the luckiest girl on the planet.💜 happy anniversary to the person who makes everything about this beautiful life we have possible.
📷 @c10ike
DAY TWO // WPI Spring Retreat 💜
If Day 1 was about getting closer to the question, Day 2 was about getting honest with the answer.
We came back together over mimosas and morning hugs (a WPI staple at this point 😉) and got right back into refinement — this time turning the lens inward. What are you actually building? And are your standards, your pricing, and your daily reality all telling the same story?
The member gives went THERE. We talked about how a systems strategist can help you untangle your process, and how saying no (A LOT) helped two photographers book better weddings.
I spoke about two important topics: setting standards and nervous system – two topics that have become very important inside WPI!
In between these conversations was room for the good stuff: small group breakouts, real talk, a few happy tears, a homemade Caribbean lunch (those pressed sandwiches 🤌), and an afternoon of feet in the pool and brains fully stretched.
Not pictured was the homemade Guac I whipped up and other poolside treats!
All these gorgeous moments captured by our retreat photographer + my business bestie @c10ike 💜💜💜
You might see the highlight reel and think ending up here was always my plan all along but you’d be wrong.
Like any good career, there have been lots of pivots and hiccups, and lessons that had to be learned the hard way.
Not seen here? The time…
- I forgot to add chairs to a rental order and ended up footing the $2,000 bill
- A client sat across from me crying that I ruined her wedding because her parents table had a low centerpiece
- I had to borrow $4,000 from Grandma Vera to make payroll, because I didn’t pay attention to my numbers
- About a hundred “dream clients” hired a different planner than me and I felt like an absolute failure
- I cried in my car before a wedding because I was completely and totally overwhelmed with the amount of responsibility on my shoulders (OK, maybe I did this more than once)
- My seasonal launch of The Planner’s Playbook completely bombed and I felt like my entire business was falling apart
…and roughly 700 other moments I’ve chosen to leave off the highlight reel.
So if you’re at the messy, nothing’s-working stage right now? Just know that if you have been to one wedding in your life, you are starting with more experience than I had.
I’m getting ready to embark on an exciting new chapter that I cannot wait to share with you… it’s big, and scary, and I’m sure in another few years I’ll have a lot more lore to share… but in the meantime…
Cheers to all the ups and downs I’ve experienced over the last 19 years!
And a special thanks to the photographers who made a lot of this lore possible: @c10ike @allanzepedaphoto @stevedepino @withincreative @robertandkathleen @thebrandedbosslady 💜🫶🏼😘
I’ve come to realize that many of us want to have a village, but we don’t recognize that we have to be a villager first.
My friend carla @c10ike is one of those rare exceptions and I want to introduce you to her!
When I started my planning business, I had no contacts and no real idea what I was doing. I was so green it makes me laugh to look back on it now!
And somehow, I got lucky enough to be taken under the wing of this incredible woman who showed up for me then when I was a little baby business owner, and has kept showing up ever since in more ways than I could possibly count.
She’s taught me so much over the years, and I don’t mean in the traditional sense of teaching someone something. She simply lived her life, and I paid attention.
She modeled what it means to be a friend.
A sister.
A daughter.
A wife.
A mother.
A business owner.
A boss.
I learned generosity by watching her be generous.
Compassion, connection, leadership… none of it came from advice. All of it came from the way she carries herself and the way she treats the people around her.
She has taught me more than she will ever know by the sheer act of living loudly and joyfully in every corner of her life.
I am so lucky to call her my friend. So lucky to be one of the many, many people she has been a villager for.
Carla thank you for letting me grow up right beside you. I love you. 🤍
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