When you first enter the wedding industry, you are often eager to book anything you possibly can. We've all been tempted to work those crappy weddings for the promise of something, anything, you can add to your portfolio. The novelty wears off fast though. If you have been dreaming about how to book destination weddings and elopements, you are in the right place. In this article, I'm going to share with you how to get destination wedding clients.
As a wedding planner for over 13 years, I've learned a thing or two about booking the kind of clients you want (you can read more about my journey here if you are curious)! My wedding business, which I sold in 2019, started in Connecticut. When I met my now-husband, I eagerly started booking weddings in his destination where I now live and love – the dreamy little island of Barbados! Today, I am going to share with you 6 steps you need to take to book more destination weddings.

Make sure your website and branding make it CLEAR that you offer destination wedding and elopement services.
I know that it sounds too good to be true but sometimes simply saying that you offer destination weddings and elopement services is enough to have people book you. Don't assume that your ideal customer automatically knows that you are ready and willing to book their destination wedding. We are going to talk more about how to attract destination wedding planning couples in the next few steps, but you need to start here first. After all, what's the point of attracting destination wedding planning couples if your website and branding aren't going to seal the deal?
At the very least, advertising destination wedding services prompt wedding couples to start a conversation. Even if they don't end up booking you for a destination wedding, you never know if they will send referrals your way. When it comes to branding, be clear over clever. If you are dreaming of becoming a destination wedding planner, make it clear in your marketing!
Select 3-5 destinations you want to be known for. Don't worry, this list can grow over time.
I know, I know. Nobody ever wants to commit to their niche, right? If you have been dreaming about destination weddings, chances are you also have dreams of traveling the world and exploring many different locations with your wedding couples.
Bear with me while I hit you with a cliché like “Rome wasn't built in a day”.
When you first start to advertise that you were open to destination wedding business, focus on just 3 to 5 destinations that you really want to be known for. Once you become the go-to wedding authority in your space for those destinations, you can start to expand to even more dreamy locations.
Research venue options that your ideal client would be interested in. If you don't know who your ideal client is, you need to grab my Client Cocktail!
Seriously, let me just insert a shameless plug here. You may think you have a pretty good idea of who your ideal client is, but after teaching hundreds of wedding pros how to create their ideal client avatars (and the feedback I've received), I can guarantee you that you don't know them as well as you think you do.
They are NOT just somebody between the ages of 30-35 with a household income of $200,000/year who loves shopping at Nordstrom and frequently drinks Starbucks (or whatever you have written down in your notebook right now).
The first step to booking your ideal clients (destination weddings, elopements, or otherwise), is a deep understanding of what they truly value (whether they admit it to themselves or not). For just $37, my ideal client cocktail will be the best money you've spent on your wedding business this year. Marketing your business to attract ideal clients is a lot easier when you know EXACTLY who you are talking to.

Align yourself with those venues, resorts, cities/towns, and areas through discoverable content like blog posts, Pinterest pins, and geo-tagged Instagram posts.
Once you have a deep understanding of the venues, resorts, cities, and locations that your ideal client would be interested in, you need to focus on creating as much quality searchable content that leads back to you as possible. Writing blog posts, creating Pinterest pins, and geo-tagging Instagram posts are great ways to get in front of what your ideal clients are already searching for.
I practice what I preach, ya'll, after all – how did you find me today? There's a good chance it was through searchable content!
Don't let imposter syndrome get you! Don't worry if you haven't worked at the places you are trying to sell yet. Use stock images with credit if needed.
Who hasn't felt imposter syndrome from time to time? I hate to be the one to break it to you, but as you embark on this new adventure to book more destination weddings and elopement, there is a good chance that imposter syndrome may rear its ugly head.
If you are reading this blog post and have made it this far, here's what I know about you: you are resourceful enough to figure things out as you go. Remind yourself of that often.
Book the Wedding Planning Clients You WANT
When I started my wedding business in 2007, I told my accountant I was planning on doing the first few weddings for free or very low cost, so I could build my portfolio. The advice he gave me was pure gold, and I'm sharing it with you today.
He said to me, “Candice, I don't know much about wedding planning, but I do know a lot about home building. Oftentimes, home builders enter the industry with the best of intentions, to do work for free or very low cost to build their portfolio. In reality, what ends up happening is that they get stuck at a certain price point and have an incredibly hard time breaking out of it because the work and their portfolio doesn't match the work they want to book.”
You need to start where you want to land. Boom, mic drop.
He might not have had any experience in the wedding industry, but boy was his advice spot on. Looking back, I'm so glad I took the time to listen. I ended up building my business on a DIY WordPress website using janky stock images and replacing them as I got better and better. Compared to the stock images we have access to now, I have to laugh a little bit!
In your marketing, tell stories about what you WOULD do there as a wedding planner/photographer/vendor.
Now that you've gotten crystal clear, all that's left to do is spread your message far and wide and wait for your ideal clients to find you and book you. In your marketing, tell stories about what you would do there as a wedding planner, photographer, or another vendor.
Not quite sure how to effectively use stories in your marketing? Make sure to listen to this podcast episode!
For example, using a stock image of a beach, talk about how you recommend your customers book venues that have access to a private area of beach instead of in front for the whole resort to see. You have the inside scoop, of course (that's why you did the research first!). Another example? Share stock images of food and talk about how you help your couples choose a wedding menu. Seriously, the sky's the limit, and if you don't have real weddings to talk about (yet!), that doesn't mean you can't share what you DO know.

How to Book More Destination Wedding Couples (+ Become the “Go To” Destination Wedding Planner)
Can you tell I'm passionate about getting wedding planners (and other wedding vendors) the businesses they have always wanted? Finding (and booking) your ideal clients is one of the things I'm known for. If that includes booking destination weddings, I am so glad that you found your way here. Below, you will find a quick summary of the 6 steps I recommend to book more destination weddings and elopements. This WORKS, ya'll.
- Make sure your website and branding make it CLEAR that you offer destination wedding and elopement services.
- Select 3-5 destinations you want to be known for. Don't worry, this list can grow over time.
- Research venue options that your ideal client would be interested in. If you don't know who your ideal client is, you need to grab my Ideal Client Cocktail!
- Align yourself with those venues, resorts, cities/towns, and areas through discoverable content like blog posts, Pinterest Pins, and geo-tagged Instagram posts.
- Don't worry if you haven't worked at the places you are trying to sell yet. Use stock images with credit if needed.
- In your marketing, tell stories about what you WOULD do there as a wedding planner/photographer/vendor.
Bonus Step: DM me on Instagram and tell me when you've booked your first destination wedding or elopement customer!

Ready to book destination weddings and elopements? Add “Destination Wedding Planner” or “Elopement Photographer” to your portfolio? I'm excited to see what you do. Want to make narrowing down your ideal clients even easier? Grab My Client Cocktail! Inside, you'll learn how to attract, sell, and serve your ideal clients. Whether they are dreaming of Italy or Mexico…
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I’m getting settled back into life after a whirlwind week at @creativeeducatorconference - and I want to share a few things with you.
First, @laylee_emadi put together the most incredible space for learning, connection, and the exchange of ideas. If you’ve ever hosted a live event, then you know how much WORK goes into it. Hats off to Laylee and her team for intentionally creating such a safe place for people to be themselves.
Friends, there’s something magical that happens when people get together. I know (maybe better than most) how the last few years have taken that away from us.
But if I can encourage you to do one thing this year for your business and for yourself it would be to get off Zoom and get in the room with some new people.
It can change your life.
There were so many special moments last week, but the sweetest was *finally* getting to meet some of the women that I’ve been coaching for… I dunno… YEARS?!
We laughed, ate meals, hugged, learned together, talked shit, laughed some more, and had the best time. Ladies, I love you all so much and I can’t wait to do it again.
@simplysandrayvonne @elizabethberghuisphotography @rohanaolson @the_evergreencollective
Laylee, you are brave and brilliant–and I can’t thank you enough for giving me a chance to share a little behind-the-scenes magic of my own business.
To everyone I got a chance to chat with and learn from–thanks for being so generous with your conversation and ideas. You are all amazing-and I can’t wait to see how you make waves and ripples this year!

The day is finally here! The doors to The Planner’s Playbook are officially open!
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The Planner’s Playbook is my newest coaching program for wedding planners, and it’s your secret weapon to planning, designing, and coordinating magazine-worthy weddings.
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Designed for wedding planners who are three years or less into their business–and it will give you all the training AND support you need to:
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🙌🏼 Design high-end, magazine-worthy weddings that bring your couples’ story to life (so you can become that industry taste-maker everyone is dying to work with)
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🙌🏼 Plan luxury weddings from A-Z like a pro without having to figure it out on your own (we’re talking big budgets, tented weddings, stellar vendors, and perfected timelines)
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🙌🏼 Serve your customers better than your competitors and turn them into raving fans (so they become your word-of-mouth champions and refer *more* luxe clients your way)
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🙌🏼 Simplify your planning process with a clear picture of how to work with your clients on any occasion or budget (like your timelines, checklists, workflows, proposals, contracts–you know, all the things)
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🙌🏼 Boost your productivity with solid systems and processes that make wedding planning easy (and deliver an incredible client experience)
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🙌🏼 Reach a higher-end clientele that’s dying to work with you and craves your one-of-a-kind wedding planning experience (so that you can charge more money and scale your business)
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I’ve taken my 12 years of experience in the wedding industry and created this program to teach you everything you need to know about design, planning, and coordination.
💡 Imagine all the things you could accomplish if you had the right resources and support to guide you. Ready to learn more?
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👉🏻👉🏻👉🏻 Head to plannersplaybook.com to join us inside!

As we built this experience, we put a lot of thought into what you need to build and grow your business.
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We know that success follows a proven path, and with the Planner’s Playbook, you'll have everything you need to plan, design, and coordinate high-end weddings.
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💡 TRAINING
I'm not joking when I tell you that I've been through *every* wedding planning scenario imaginable. I know that in order to grow your wedding planning business, you've got to become the best in the game.
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Inside The Planner's Playbook, we teach you the in's and out's of wedding planning–including how to design and coordinate
your events.
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🙋🏼♀️ COMMUNITY
You can't do business alone–and as long as I'm around, you'll never have to. That's why we've built community into The Planner's Playbook–where you'll network with other planners from all over the world.
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We're just one click away to offer you support, encouragement,
and advice.
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💕 SUPPORT
Ever wish you could just jump on a zoom call with someone you admire and ask them all your burning questions?
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Inside The Planner's Playbook, we offer you the support you need to grow your wedding planning business. Our monthly coaching calls are your opportunity to get direct, personalized feedback from me (hey!) on just about anything.
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When you're a Playbooker, you'll always have a trusted mentor to lean on.
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🚀 ACTION
Wanna make progress? You've got to take a step forward.
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Inside The Planner's Playbook, you won't just learn how to be the best wedding planner–you'll also have the support system to take action in your business and get shit done.
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Imagine all the things you could accomplish if you had the right resources and support to guide you.
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To learn more and join us go to 👉🏻👉🏻👉🏻👉🏻 plannersplaybook.com
We can’t wait to welcome you! 💕💕

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