You’ve filed for your LLC, created a website, launched your Instagram, and (*cues champagne*) opened up your wedding business. Congratulations! A lot of hard work has brought you to this point, and the time has come for us to put all that hard work to use. You’re finally ready to book your first set of clients! But… now you’re wondering… how do I get wedding clients when I’m just starting out? My friend, that’s an excellent question–and one I am going to answer for you today. In this article, I’m sharing how to get wedding clients when you’re just starting out.
With a little elbow grease, some patience, and a smidge of tenacity, you can put these three quick tips to work and call in your ideal client in no time. Ready to learn these three quick and easy secrets to getting wedding clients when you’re just starting out?

Here’s how to get your first wedding clients when you’re just starting out…
Step One: Network With Vendors
The quickest way to get to where YOU want to go (you know, having a successful business that makes money and lets you do what you love every. single. day!) is to align yourself with wedding industry creatives who are ALREADY in front of your ideal clients.
Start researching wedding vendors in your area and look for wedding pros who are booking the kinds of couples you want to work with.
Research all you can about their business, explore their portfolios, and go and follow them on Instagram. Begin to compile a list of incredible partners you should align your business.
Here’s a short list of vendors to look out for (and reach out to):
- Wedding Planners
- Wedding Photographers
- Stationery Professionals
- Caterers
- Rental Companies
- Videographers
- Bridal Stores
- Wedding Hair & Makeup Artists
- Entertainment Companies
- DJs & Bands
- Wedding Floral Designers
All these vendors have the power to refer to you–and my friend–there is no better way to get your first wedding client than to have a fellow pro vouch for your creativity and professionalism.
The wedding industry is a relationship business. And the more relationships you build inside the industry, the easier it becomes to book clients with ease.
Once you’ve found all your dreamy partners, reach out to them and introduce yourself. But here’s where I want you to really listen to me: the key to networking is NOT what they can do for you. The key to networking is what YOU can do for them. When you approach your dream partners, do so by showing what you can do to serve and help them.
I promise that the approach of “what can I do for you” will get you building relationships and establishing referrals in NO time. If you’re new to networking, check out my best tips for building relationships in the industry.
If you’re not 100% sure who you want to work with yet, grab The Client Cocktail. It’s my quick mini-training that will have you booking out your biz with your ideal clients in no time (and magazine-worthy weddings to boot!).

Step Two: Reach Out To Wedding Venues
The first decision a couple has to make for their wedding is… where are we going to get married? That’s why I want you to research venues in your area where YOUR ideal client is getting married and start to create connections with them.
Where a couple decides to get married says A LOT about their style, budget, and priorities–so aligning yourself with the *right* venues will supercharge your efforts in landing your first client.
Make a list of venues that you are DYING to work at–and start making connections with their owners/sales team. Remember my networking tip from above. It’s not what they can do for you–it’s what you can do for them.
Pretty soon, you’ll have a flurry of inquiries at your dream venues. You’ll be booking weddings at them in no time! And that worry about how to get wedding clients when you’re just starting out? Oh yeah. That’s a thing of the past.
Step Three: Market your business where your customers hang out
Listen. If you’re not going to talk about your business, who will? When you’re just starting out in business and need to get wedding clients, you’ve got to get out there and TALK about your business. But I want to share a little secret with you…
Focus your energy in the *right* places.
Instead of shouting everywhere, I want you to be strategic about where you market your business. This is going to save you a lot of time and heartbreak. Your goal is to market your business where your ideal clients are hanging out. Where do they congregate, get together, and look for an amazing creative vendor like you?
Are they…
- Reading magazines?
- Searching Instagram hashtags?
- Looking at vendors tagged in posts?
- Hanging out on Pinterest?
- Searching on Google?
- Talking to other vendors?
- Posting in Facebook Groups?
- Browsing online directories?
Once you can confirm where YOUR ideal clients are hanging out, I want you to show up in those places and market your business.
Marketing is simply spreading your message so that it reaches the right people. Once you understand where the right people are, all you have to do is spread your message.
And spread it again.
Oh yeah, and again and again!
(If you’re looking for my thoughts on marketing your wedding planning business, check out all the wedding planner marketing tips I’ve rounded up)
Excited to book your first client?! I know you can do this—and with the right support, you can do it faster. If you’re feeling fired up and ready to start booking clients (even if you don’t have a portfolio, a certification, or a clue where to begin), I’ve got something for you…Sign up for my Wedding Planner Masterclass — a step-by-step class where I’ll walk you through exactly how to start your business and book your first five clients.
OK, let’s do a quick recap. Here’s how to get wedding clients when you’re just starting out:
- Network with wedding vendors.
The quickest way to get to where YOU want to go (you know, having a successful business that makes money and lets you do what you love every. single. day!) is to align yourself with wedding industry creatives who are ALREADY in front of your ideal clients.
- Reach out to wedding venues.
Make a list of venues that you are DYING to work at–and start making connections with their owners/sales team.
- Market your business where your customers hang out.
Instead of shouting everywhere, I want you to be strategic about where you market your business. Show up where your customers are hanging out.
Want more? Check out this video on my YouTube channel ↓
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Today I got to share Cue with my DI mastermind, and I’m feeling really proud. 🥹
I’ve been so busy building it that it felt good to stop for a minute and share the story with a room full of people I love and admire. So many smart, talented, generous people who I’m lucky to call my friends.
This was a special one. ❤️
Would you guys like to hear what I shared? I’m thinking about breaking it down into a series here on Instagram. Should we do it?
@ninelemonsfengshui encouraged me to share it with you all here, and I think I should. LMK in the comments if you’d be interested in my presentation from today!
Day one in Charleston for the DI Mastermind, and I spent ten hours of it in my hotel room working on Cue. I’ve been at it since 7 a.m., trying to get client portals ready, and I didn’t get as far as I’d hoped.
But I did close my laptop long enough to hug some of my mastermind friends, catch up before sessions start tomorrow, and see this.
I’d love to tell you this sunset inspired some profound revelation, but mostly I think I needed to leave my fucking room. 😂
Although maybe that’s the reminder: there will always be something that needs more of me. I’m allowed to step outside and enjoy where I am before everything is finished.
And so are you! 💜
I’ve been doing brand shoots for almost 20 years, and I have opinions 😂 Here are 9 things that make them great:
1. Hire a photographer who specializes in brand shoots. There’s a big difference in quality when you work with someone who understands how to photograph you AND your business. Go with the best you can afford.
2. Book more time than you think you need. An hour is nice for headshots, but multiple outfits and scenes take hours. If you want lots of variety, give yourself time to create it. If you’re going to do it, go big and do it right.
3. Know how you’ll use the photos. Your website, social media, launches, presentations—tell your photographer what you need. Plan for different crops, orientations, and room for text.
4. Have a creative direction. Build a mood board so everyone understands the vibe. Think about the story you want the photos to tell before you show up.
5. Dress for where your brand is going. This is your chance to show up as the version of yourself you’re stepping into. Bring outfits that make you feel like her.
6. Get your photographer involved in the planning. Ask for their input on locations, outfits, lighting, and timing. You hired an expert—let them help shape the shoot.
7. Plan actual scenes. Hosting, teaching, designing, creating—what are you doing in the photos? Build moments around your work so you leave with more than portraits.
8. Don’t spend the entire shoot behind a laptop. Your business has more personality than that. Give people something interesting to look at.
9. Bring someone to help. Someone to handle outfits, fix your hair, catch a twisted necklace, and keep things moving. Those extra hands make a difference.
Which photo from @c10ike is your favorite?
Off to spend a week in Charleston (my first time!) for @juliecchenell Digital Insiders Mastermind. I absolutely love getting to spend a week with my colleagues and business friends.
We share meals and ideas and laughs and horror stories and wins and it’s truly the best thing ever. If you’re not already in a mastermind group for your business that allows you to get together once or twice a year, I HIGHLY recommend it! I always leave these events feeling inspired and motivated.
This year I get to share with the group my journey in building @planwithcue and I’m both excited and nervous to share what I’ve been working on. Wish me luck!
To my DI crew I can’t wait to see you soon!!!!!!!
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