With weddings, we know there are no do-overs. That’s what makes being a wedding planner and part of the wedding industry in general challenging. There’s a lot at stake for your client’s wedding–and you want to make sure you get it right. But with that responsibility, you’ll find yourself dealing with wedding planning stress. Inside this article, I want to share some tools to manage your wedding planning stress, especially during your wedding season.
I was a wedding planner for over 12-years, and during my time working with clients, I’ve faced every stressful situation imaginable. Perhaps the most challenging part about being a wedding planner is knowing that everything is *not* within your control… but you feel a personal responsibility to help, manage, and fix all of it.
How do you manage wedding planning stress? Whether you’re on the ground at an event or dealing with an unforeseen issue in the planning process… Let’s talk about it.
Beat Wedding Planner Stress by Changing Your Soundtrack
When we’re stressing about something, it’s easy to let that stress consume our thoughts. Whether you’re dealing with a client issue or a problem that needs handling, a soundtrack can quickly emerge inside your head–and it’s all you can think about.
Those thoughts come roaring through your mind. Thoughts like…
“What am I going to do next?”
“Is my client going to be pissed? What if they blame me for this?”
“How can I solve this problem?”
Your thoughts can quickly spiral out of control when you’re stressed. Instead of letting your anxiety and stress consume you, change your soundtrack. Find a way to focus on something else for a while. Load up your favorite podcast, listen to music, or read something uplifting. I love going for a workout when I’m feeling stressed or when my thoughts are getting the best of me.
Switch up your environment and change your soundtrack. Then, come back with a fresh perspective.
Call On Past Experiences To Combat Wedding Planner Stress
This isn’t your first rodeo, even if it is your first wedding.
You’ve been here before. It doesn’t feel like it, but you have. And that’s because you’ve done hard things in your life–and you will do them again. Take a moment and remember the last time you dealt with a tricky situation. You’re still here, right? Right.
When wedding planning stress hits, remember that you’re a boss who’s handled things in the past. You figured it out, moved past it, and have lived to tell the tail.
Combat Wedding Planner Stress By Finding Your Gratitude
This might sound hokey, but it works. Take five minutes to write down what you’re grateful for today. List out all the good things in your life and your career that bring you happiness. Finding your gratitude can help you see the bigger picture.
In moments of stress or as the anxiety of your job builds, gratitude for the good will always keep you ground. It helped me in some of the most stressful situations I’ve ever experienced, and I know it’ll help you.
Hold up – are you looking for some extra support to combat the wedding season craziness and stress?
Come and join us inside The Planner’s Playbook! Inside my coaching community for wedding planners, you’ll find all the training, support, guidance, and community you need to tackle whatever wedding season throws your way.
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There are certain people you meet in business who just get it.
Who love the work they do, the clients they serve, and have a deep passion for the wedding industry.
Frances Ledgewood is one of those people.
She’s the heart and hands behind @ledgewoodfinestationery, but more than that, she’s a visionary.
A long-time podcast listener, private client, and someone I’ve had the absolute joy of mentoring as she’s taken bold steps to grow a brand that’s as intentional as it is iconic.
In this week’s Behind the Brand, I’m sitting down with Frances to talk about building a business rooted in heart, legacy, and excellence.
We talk about her early days, how she’s built her brand, grown a team, and stepped into a bold new season of leadership.
You’re going to feel so inspired hearing about Frances journey — and I can’t wait for you to tune in!
Comment 191 and I’ll DM you a link to listen! 💜💜
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PSA for my OGs ✨
You’ve got the talent and the experience... but you already know… it’s not as easy as it used to be. And it’s only getting harder.
The pros who will actually survive the next generation of business are the ones prioritizing visibility.
I’m seeing insanely talented and experienced OGs in our industry being overlooked because they’re not showing up.
And if that’s you, I have a question...
👀 What are you going to do about it?
Comment 190 and I will send you the link to listen to this week’s episode of The Power in Purpose where I’m sharing the 5 ways I see wedding pros playing small (and what it’s costing you).
Everyone’s talking about how AI is making everybody sound the same.
I’m here to tell you they’re wrong.
Once you know how to train ChatGPT on your brand voice? It can quickly become your unfair advantage.
In this week’s episode, I’m talking about:
👉 What “training” AI really looks like
👉 How to make it sound exactly like you
👉 Why this is the skill that will set you apart from your competition this year
And if you’re ready to go beyond listening and actually do the work?
Join me later this month for my live workshop where I’ll walk you through the exact process of training ChatGPT on your brand voice so it becomes your full-service marketing assistant.
Wedding pros, don’t sit this one out. Comment 189 and I will send you the link to listen now (and workshop details so you can register!)
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Over the last few months, I’ve taught hundreds of wedding planners how to use ChatGPT like an actual planning assistant — not just a caption writer.
And every time, I hear the same thing:
💬 “Why didn’t I do this sooner?!”
Because once you know how to train ChatGPT to sound like you, think like you, and support your business like a real team member… things get a LOT easier.
✔️ Timelines
✔️ Budgets
✔️ Client communication
✔️ Design briefs
✔️ Vendor emails
✔️ Rehearsal schedules
✔️ Wedding weekend logistics
I’ll show you how to do all of it in my AI Masterclass for Wedding Planners — and it only takes 90 minutes.
👇 Comment MASTERCLASS below and I’ll DM you the link!
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