With weddings, we know there are no do-overs. That’s what makes being a wedding planner and part of the wedding industry in general challenging. There’s a lot at stake for your client’s wedding–and you want to make sure you get it right. But with that responsibility, you’ll find yourself dealing with wedding planning stress. Inside this article, I want to share some tools to manage your wedding planning stress, especially during your wedding season.
I was a wedding planner for over 12-years, and during my time working with clients, I've faced every stressful situation imaginable. Perhaps the most challenging part about being a wedding planner is knowing that everything is *not* within your control… but you feel a personal responsibility to help, manage, and fix all of it.
How do you manage wedding planning stress? Whether you're on the ground at an event or dealing with an unforeseen issue in the planning process… Let’s talk about it.
Beat Wedding Planner Stress by Changing Your Soundtrack
When we’re stressing about something, it’s easy to let that stress consume our thoughts. Whether you’re dealing with a client issue or a problem that needs handling, a soundtrack can quickly emerge inside your head–and it’s all you can think about.
Those thoughts come roaring through your mind. Thoughts like…
“What am I going to do next?”
“Is my client going to be pissed? What if they blame me for this?”
“How can I solve this problem?”
Your thoughts can quickly spiral out of control when you're stressed. Instead of letting your anxiety and stress consume you, change your soundtrack. Find a way to focus on something else for a while. Load up your favorite podcast, listen to music, or read something uplifting. I love going for a workout when I'm feeling stressed or when my thoughts are getting the best of me.
Switch up your environment and change your soundtrack. Then, come back with a fresh perspective.
Call On Past Experiences To Combat Wedding Planner Stress
This isn't your first rodeo, even if it is your first wedding.
You’ve been here before. It doesn’t feel like it, but you have. And that’s because you’ve done hard things in your life–and you will do them again. Take a moment and remember the last time you dealt with a tricky situation. You’re still here, right? Right.
When wedding planning stress hits, remember that you're a boss who's handled things in the past. You figured it out, moved past it, and have lived to tell the tail.
Combat Wedding Planner Stress By Finding Your Gratitude
This might sound hokey, but it works. Take five minutes to write down what you’re grateful for today. List out all the good things in your life and your career that bring you happiness. Finding your gratitude can help you see the bigger picture.
In moments of stress or as the anxiety of your job builds, gratitude for the good will always keep you ground. It helped me in some of the most stressful situations I've ever experienced, and I know it'll help you.
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Come and join us inside The Planner’s Playbook! Inside my coaching community for wedding planners, you'll find all the training, support, guidance, and community you need to tackle whatever wedding season throws your way.
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Christmas at my home in the day vs night 🤩
I’ve finally finished putting together our home for the holidays. What do you think of our 2023 look?
Almost all of the decorations - from candles, ornaments, garlands, and trees - I already had in my collection. This year I just styled it differently and added a few pieces (like the flocked garland 😍).
I’m so excited to host friends and family for the holidays in the space. Stay tuned 💁🏼♀️
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✨ it’s time ✨
I still have lots more to share, but I couldn’t wait to show you our Christmas tree for 2023 (at least the main one in our living room!).
I 10/10 recommend putting a mirror behind your tree to add some extra sparkle! I love how this tree turned out this year.
❓Which ornament is your favorite?!
Stay tuned tomorrow to see how I transformed our living room into a snowy glam wonderland 💁🏼♀️
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Before you start decorating for Christmas, you need to see what you have.
My years as an event designer and stylist taught me how to style my home for the holidays. Watch me set up all my Christmas decor and holiday decor and get some Christmas decor inspo! I’m so excited to share with you my theme this year and some of the new items I picked up 👀👀👀
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It’s all happening! I am SO ready to decorate for Christmas this year and I’ve been wanting to share with you how we decorate our home for the holidays…
So, introducing decorating for Christmas 2023! This is the first if many videos I hope to share over the next few weeks.
Let’s inbox my four Christmas trees and get things started. Yes, I have 4 Christmas trees.
Decorating for the holidays is my THING and I can’t tell you how much happiness it brings me to have our house brimming with Christmas food, music, scents, and decorations!
Which tree should I decorate first?! .
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