You’re wearing many hats in your business right now, and there is one that you might not be aware of. You put this hat on every day, too. Including being in charge of everything from your website to payroll, you’re also the lead salesperson for your business. The role of sales might be the most crucial role of all! In this blog post, I share 5 sales techniques that will help you land the sale more often. Consider it your secret sauce to booking more dreamy, lovable clients.
First, let’s get something out of the way: you need a sales strategy. If you don’t have one, let’s get you one. This article will help you take charge and craft a successful sales strategy.
Did you know that people who write down their goals are 42% more likely to achieve them? This principle applies to all business strategies, including sales, marketing, and growth strategies. When you develop these areas on paper, you’re much more likely to see them through to success. You want to define and refine your sales strategy throughout the year, perhaps most notably during engagement season.

Stop Focusing So Much On Your Price
You might think your customers care the most about your price, but that’s not the case. Consider this quote from Seth Godin:
“The reason it seems that price is all your customers care about is that you haven’t given them anything else to care about.”
To land the sale, you have to take some time to understand what your customers care about – and then create customized services that match their needs. Not their needs on price, but what they care about.
What questions can you start asking leads to understand what it is they really care about?

Automate Your Process
When you can automate your business areas, you make those areas work better for you rather than you having to work for them.
There are steps in our sales process that are automated with tech. Honeybook has automated systems that take care of us, like questionnaires, contracts, and payments.
The benefits of automation aren’t just saving time. When you automate your sales process, it allows ANYONE in your company to sell just like you.
What areas of your sales process can you automate? Start by creating a Google doc where you outline your current sales process. Then, ask yourself the question: how can we automate specific tasks or touchpoints?
Accelerate the Know/Like/Trust Factor
Just like respect, you earn trust. How do you gain the confidence of a potential lead?
Trust is something that you want to establish early on in a relationship.
To develop trust, you have to do a few things.
First, you need to listen to what your potential lead is telling you. Being a good listener is a muscle you have to exercise. Ask your potential clients questions in a questionnaire before you pitch, which will help you get to know them better. Listen to their answers.
Remember, you need to know what they care about.
Next, deliver a value proposition that considers all their concerns and requirements and illustrates how they’ll feel when working for you.
Yes, illustrate how your services or product will make them feel. As humans, we purchase our feelings. When we’re confused, we seek out remedies that educate us. If we’re scared, we buy items that will take away fear. When we’re overwhelmed, we enlist help.
Selling feelings is a viable sales strategy. It’s what guides most people’s purchasing decisions. Just make sure you can deliver on the emotions that you sell.
Personalizing Your Pitch
Every person who inquires about your goods or services is unique. Are you personalizing your sales pitch to each? I’m going to show you an easy way to do that: define your client avatars.
What’s a client avatar? It’s simply a client profile. You can have more than one, and your client avatar can be B to C (business to client) OR a B to B (business to business). Consider this: who are your ideal clients? What do they value, what motivates them, and what problems do they face?
We’re all unique people. We have unique personalities, wants, and needs. For instance, I’m an Enneagram type 3, which means I’m always striving for achievement. I like people to get to the point quickly, and I’m willing to move on an idea before I’ve thoroughly thought it through. If you knew that about me, how would you personalize your sales pitch?
Authenticity Is Key
Authenticity is a word that gets thrown around a lot these days, and that’s because millennials are all about it. To me, authenticity means being honest, up-front, and always keeping my customers’ best interests in mind. Do you do that during the sales process?
Being authentic is another way to gain the trust of your potential sales. Do you educate your potential customers when they connect with you? Maybe their budget is out of whack (it happens, people!). Or perhaps their expectations are unrealistic. Be a source of knowledge for them– be honest and straight up.
Let authenticity guide you in the sales process so much so that your ideal customers see it at work. They’ll know you’re honest with them, even when you’re telling them something they don’t want to hear. They’ll trust you because of it.
Being authentic also means you never stray from your business’s core values, mission, or vision.
These sales techniques are just a few high-level ideas you need to be aware of. I’ve got more sales advice in my arsenal that I’ll share with you soon!
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Today I got to share Cue with my DI mastermind, and I’m feeling really proud. 🥹
I’ve been so busy building it that it felt good to stop for a minute and share the story with a room full of people I love and admire. So many smart, talented, generous people who I’m lucky to call my friends.
This was a special one. ❤️
Would you guys like to hear what I shared? I’m thinking about breaking it down into a series here on Instagram. Should we do it?
@ninelemonsfengshui encouraged me to share it with you all here, and I think I should. LMK in the comments if you’d be interested in my presentation from today!
Day one in Charleston for the DI Mastermind, and I spent ten hours of it in my hotel room working on Cue. I’ve been at it since 7 a.m., trying to get client portals ready, and I didn’t get as far as I’d hoped.
But I did close my laptop long enough to hug some of my mastermind friends, catch up before sessions start tomorrow, and see this.
I’d love to tell you this sunset inspired some profound revelation, but mostly I think I needed to leave my fucking room. 😂
Although maybe that’s the reminder: there will always be something that needs more of me. I’m allowed to step outside and enjoy where I am before everything is finished.
And so are you! 💜
I’ve been doing brand shoots for almost 20 years, and I have opinions 😂 Here are 9 things that make them great:
1. Hire a photographer who specializes in brand shoots. There’s a big difference in quality when you work with someone who understands how to photograph you AND your business. Go with the best you can afford.
2. Book more time than you think you need. An hour is nice for headshots, but multiple outfits and scenes take hours. If you want lots of variety, give yourself time to create it. If you’re going to do it, go big and do it right.
3. Know how you’ll use the photos. Your website, social media, launches, presentations—tell your photographer what you need. Plan for different crops, orientations, and room for text.
4. Have a creative direction. Build a mood board so everyone understands the vibe. Think about the story you want the photos to tell before you show up.
5. Dress for where your brand is going. This is your chance to show up as the version of yourself you’re stepping into. Bring outfits that make you feel like her.
6. Get your photographer involved in the planning. Ask for their input on locations, outfits, lighting, and timing. You hired an expert—let them help shape the shoot.
7. Plan actual scenes. Hosting, teaching, designing, creating—what are you doing in the photos? Build moments around your work so you leave with more than portraits.
8. Don’t spend the entire shoot behind a laptop. Your business has more personality than that. Give people something interesting to look at.
9. Bring someone to help. Someone to handle outfits, fix your hair, catch a twisted necklace, and keep things moving. Those extra hands make a difference.
Which photo from @c10ike is your favorite?
Off to spend a week in Charleston (my first time!) for @juliecchenell Digital Insiders Mastermind. I absolutely love getting to spend a week with my colleagues and business friends.
We share meals and ideas and laughs and horror stories and wins and it’s truly the best thing ever. If you’re not already in a mastermind group for your business that allows you to get together once or twice a year, I HIGHLY recommend it! I always leave these events feeling inspired and motivated.
This year I get to share with the group my journey in building @planwithcue and I’m both excited and nervous to share what I’ve been working on. Wish me luck!
To my DI crew I can’t wait to see you soon!!!!!!!
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