There is never a dull moment in the wedding industry. This year, in particular, has been weirdly slow for many wedding professionals, both new and experienced alike. Did you just breathe a sigh of relief knowing it’s not just you? If you’re finding yourself in a slower season than you’re used to, don’t worry—this can be the perfect time to refocus and elevate your business. As a business coach for wedding pros, I’m going to share seven actionable strategies to make the most of a lull in your wedding planning calendar. Consider this your guide for what to do during a slow wedding season!

1. Plan Styled Shoots
While styled shoots have typically taken place during slower seasons, now is a perfect time to take advantage of the summer backdrops at some of your favorite venues (if you find they are less busy than usual). If you’re new around here, you should know that I love a good styled shoot. It’s the perfect opportunity to let your imagination roam free and showcase your talent (without needing to cater to client preferences). By collaborating with local vendors, photographers, and venues, you have the opportunity to create a dream wedding scenario that not only highlights your skills but also builds a strong network within the industry.
A little extra tip? As you plan these shoots, try to incorporate themes that reflect current trends as well as your unique style. This will ensure your work stands out and resonates with potential clients looking for someone just like youl. Plus, don’t forget to capture behind-the-scenes moments—they offer a candid look at your process and add a personal touch to your marketing efforts. Don’t forget about B-roll for Reels!
If you’re curious about styled shoots (but have no idea how TF to get started), make sure to grab my Styled Shoot Rulebook. This guide is packed with tips, checklists, and insider secrets to help you plan and execute stunning styled shoots that will leave a lasting impression (and hopefully get published!).

2. Network and Reach Out to Venues
Networking isn’t just for the busy season. If you are trying to fill a slow wedding season, use this time to build and strengthen relationships with venues and other industry professionals. Schedule coffee meetings, attend local events, or even host a small networking gathering (but be mindful that it might not be a slow wedding season for everyone, so be careful to not take busyness personally).
The connections you build now can translate into invaluable referrals and collaborations down the road. Plus, staying top-of-mind with venues can lead to opportunities when the wedding season picks up again (or when one of their couples decides at the last minute they DO want to hire a wedding planner!).
3. Work on Your Sales Skills
Next, let’s talk about your SALES skills. The ability to sell your services confidently is crucial for any wedding planner so if this is an area you have been avoiding, there’s no time like the present. There are plenty of online courses (like the one INCLUDED in the Planner’s Playbook), books, and webinars focused on selling strategies tailored specifically for the wedding industry. Practice your pitch, refine your consultations, and role-play different scenarios to become a more persuasive, confident salesperson. Plus, if you want a little wedding-specific help, I have plug n’play sales scripts for you right here!
4. Improve Your Branding and Website
If you find that one of the reasons you are having a slow wedding season is that your brand and/or website is outdated, there’s no time like the present for a refresh, friend! Your website is often one of the first impressions potential clients get. Take some time to do a thorough audit of your branding and online presence. From there, update your website with recent photos, client testimonials, and more blog posts. Take some time to make sure that your branding is consistent across all platforms and that it truly reflects who you are and what you offer too!
5. Offer Smaller Packages
Ooops – there’s my unwillingness to give you BS advice again. While this is likely something you do NOT want to hear, the truth is that you might want to consider diversifying your services to include wedding management or day-of coordination packages. While I know most of the women I coach want to book full planning and design services exclusively, and I don’t blame them, the truth is that these smaller, more affordable options can attract clients who might not be ready for full-scale planning but still need assistance.
By opening your calendar to these smaller gigs, you keep yourself busy and broaden your client base, potentially nurturing them to refer full-service clients in the future. Plus, you’re far more likely to book a last-minute event management client than you are full-service. If you need cash in the door now, this can be a great strategy for even the most experienced wedding pros.
6. Revisit Systems and Processes
When is the last time you really evaluated your systems and processes? You know that efficiency is key to scaling your business, but it doesn’t take long for your workflow to spiral out of control, right?
While in the past we have seen inquiries slow down in the summer, it’s a great time to review your current systems and processes to identify areas for improvement. Whether it’s upgrading your project management software, creating templates for common tasks, or automating your client onboarding process, small tweaks can lead to significant time savings (AND elevate your client experience in the process!).
7. Take a Break and Enjoy Yourself
Last but not least, have you tried taking a break and just enjoying having a free Saturday in the summer for once? Let’s face it, wedding planning is intense, and you deserve some downtime. Use this slower period to recharge your batteries. Whether it’s a short getaway, spending quality time with loved ones, or simply indulging in hobbies you love, if you can swing it financially I want to encourage you to just take a break.
“Down” years are NORMAL in the wedding industry (and in EVERY industry). Just because you are having a slower year does not mean you need to burn your business to the ground and work 120+ hours a week to prove that you’re working hard enough.

You Can Still Make The Most Of A Slow Season
Remember, a slow wedding season does not have to be a setback—it can be an opportunity. Not every summer is going to be your “busiest summer yet”, especially if you plan to be in business for the long haul. By taking steps to improve your business now, you are setting yourself up for greater success when the pace inevitably picks back up. So, embrace the downtime, get creative, and prepare to shine even brighter in the busy times ahead.
Ready to take your wedding planning business to the next level? I would love to take a moment to invite you to join The Planner’s Playbook, a membership community designed specifically for wedding planners who are serious about their craft and growing a profitable wedding planning business. With access to expert advice during office hours, insider tips, and a supportive network of wedding planners just like you, The Planner’s Playbook provides the tools and strategies you need to thrive in the wedding industry.
Whether you’re just starting out or looking to refine your skills, this is your chance to learn, grow, and connect with like-minded individuals. I would love to support you inside the next time doors open! If you want access to special bonuses when we open the doors next, get on the waitlist now! See you inside!
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I’ve come to realize that many of us want to have a village, but we don’t recognize that we have to be a villager first.
My friend carla @c10ike is one of those rare exceptions and I want to introduce you to her!
When I started my planning business, I had no contacts and no real idea what I was doing. I was so green it makes me laugh to look back on it now!
And somehow, I got lucky enough to be taken under the wing of this incredible woman who showed up for me then when I was a little baby business owner, and has kept showing up ever since in more ways than I could possibly count.
She’s taught me so much over the years, and I don’t mean in the traditional sense of teaching someone something. She simply lived her life, and I paid attention.
She modeled what it means to be a friend.
A sister.
A daughter.
A wife.
A mother.
A business owner.
A boss.
I learned generosity by watching her be generous.
Compassion, connection, leadership… none of it came from advice. All of it came from the way she carries herself and the way she treats the people around her.
She has taught me more than she will ever know by the sheer act of living loudly and joyfully in every corner of her life.
I am so lucky to call her my friend. So lucky to be one of the many, many people she has been a villager for.
Carla thank you for letting me grow up right beside you. I love you. 🤍
DAY ONE // WPI Spring Retreat 💜
This was our first real day together! The theme of this whole retreat was refinement, so we wasted no time getting into it on Day 1!
The women shuttled up to my home, walked through the gate to mimosas and the biggest hugs, and got their welcome totes filled with goodies I curated from female owned businesses that were mostly local!
Then we settled in, did some tapping to manifest all the answers we needed for the week, courtesy of our very own @ashley.peraino (who couldn’t join us this year, but was SO THOUGHTFUL to record a video for us!)
I opened with a talk on complexity, discernment, and self-trust (today’s podcast episode, BTW) simplifying your business and actually trusting yourself to lead what’s left.
From there the room took over. We had three incredible member gives: @c10ike on trusting your creative instincts, @ininkweddings on refining your creative POV, and @welldressedevents on generating real revenue through Google Ads (it’s giving… LEADS 😉).
In between we had small group discussions, hot conversations about where instinct and POV are out of sync, a homemade Caribbean lunch, and an afternoon of poolside snacks and conversation.
This is what the WPI room looks like. A talented group of women who came with one big business question and spent day one getting closer to the answer while having fun and getting their brains stretched!
All these gorgeous moments captured by our retreat photographer + my business bestie @c10ike 💜💜💜
Do it or delete it.
I said this recently to a coaching client, and now it’s sort of become our mantra inside WPI, because almost every business owner I know has a to-do list with 47 things on it (the same 47 things that were on last week’s list, and the week before that).
They don’t get done. They just travel from week to week collecting guilt, and that guilt somehow makes it even harder to get anything done at all.
After years of coaching women through this, you start to realize that most of those tasks don’t actually have dire consequences if they never happen. They just feel important because they’ve been living on your list rent-free for six months.
I want you to look at your to-do list right now and choose.
You do it… meaning you do it right now or at the very least put it on the calendar with a real deadline.
You delegate it… but only if it’s actually worth someone else’s time, not because you’ve been avoiding it and want to make it someone else’s problem.
Or you delete it… and I mean actually delete it, not shuffle it to a “someday” list where it will haunt you until 2027.
The guilt you feel about your undone tasks won’t go away if you magically “get more productive.” Instead I want you to see it for what it is: a list-curation problem.
What’s one thing you’re deleting today?
PS: I can confidently say these @aritzia sweatpants are 10/10
Syd from @ininkweddings spent $$$$ on a rebrand... and a year later, her gut told her to do it again.
She listened, and that’s how Messy Luxury™ was born.
The Behind the Brand series is BACK on the podcast, and this episode is one of my favorites yet. I’m excited to introduce you to Sydney Meyer (AKA ya girl, SYD) – a talented, vibrant, and dynamic wedding designer / planner based in Austin but serving clients worldwide.
I’ve been coaching Syd inside WPI since 2022, so I’ve had a front row seat to her evolution.
I’ve gotten to watch her build an iconic brand from the inside out, and it’s been one of the great joys of my coaching career. I’m so excited for you to hear her journey and some of the interesting twists and turns she’s encountered because boy, are they RELATABLE.
In this episode, we get into:
- What inspired her to start In Ink
- Why her first rebrand still didn’t feel right and how she knew
- The rock-bottom moment that forced her to build a business for HER, not everyone else
- How she trademarked Messy Luxury and turned it into the most recognizable design philosophy in Austin
If your business doesn’t feel like you anymore or if you’ve been searching for your unique creative POV, you’re going to LOVE this week’s episode!
Drop MESSY LUXURY in the comments and I’ll send you a link to listen!
A special shout out to all the photographers whose images reflect Syd and her great work: @alicialeighphoto @anastasiastratephotography @fallonstovallphoto @lightasgold @natalienicolephoto @haleyfolkman.photo @c10ike
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