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How To Start The Wedding Planning Process With Your Clients

December 29, 2021

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If you're a wedding planner, I'm going to assume that I don't need to lecture you on the importance of systems and processes. After all, I know you spend a good chunk of your time convincing couples and other vendors that systems and processes are what make weddings come to life. However, after a decade of coaching fellow wedding planners, I have learned that there are two places in a wedding planner's process that are constant struggle points: the onboarding process and the budget. Today, I'm going to talk about where the struggle happens and, more importantly, how we fix it!

First things first, when it comes to starting your wedding planning process with new clients, we always need to be mindful that although we have done this a hundred times before, your client is brand new.

This means we need to balance how excited they are to get started, with the logistics of your schedule. After all, have you ever had a client sign the contract on a Friday night and follow up Monday morning with an email asking about the next steps? Before you've even had your coffee?

So how do you keep new customers busy and how do you keep them excited without giving them more personal attention than you can manage? How do you make sure that you have everything you need to do your job effectively when you ARE ready to work on their wedding file?

What process should you have as a wedding planner to start the wedding planning process with your clients? There are two places in a wedding planner's process that are constant struggle points: the onboarding process and the budget. Today, I'm going to talk about where the struggle happens and, more importantly, how we fix it!

It is crucial that your wedding planner process MUST include a solid onboarding process and budget discussion.

These might not be the sexiest parts of wedding planning– we all love creating a good design board– but I promise you setting these systems up from the start so you can execute it flawlessly over and over again, will save you in the long run.

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Okay, now let's get back to talking about your wedding planner process must-haves.

Wedding Planner Process Must Have #1: A Solid Onboarding Process

Not sure exactly what I mean when I say onboarding? This is a process that basically outlines everything that happens after your new customer signs your contract and makes their first payment (Cha-ching!).

When you start to think about everything that happens between the inquiry, the first consultation, sending the proposal, and payment, a lot happens before onboarding even truly begins! And oftentimes, I see wedding planners so focused on closing the sale, they don't spend enough time considering exactly what happens next.

Why is an onboarding process so important?

Whether you charge $5,000 or $50,000 for your services, you want to immediately affirm that yes, they made the right choice in hiring you. Let's not forget that most of our ideal clients are hiring us because they are terrified of making a mistake.

They want to make sure that the expert they are putting a *ton* of trust and money into, is in fact the right choice. Having a solid onboarding process can instantly put them at ease because it shows that you have your shit together. They have made the right decision, and you're just as excited to work with them as they are to work with you.

Onboarding is also a great place to set some boundaries.

Hate midnight text messages from clients? It's okay to tell them that in a welcome brochure.

Do you take a little longer than 15 minutes to respond to emails? Let them know your typical response times and when they can expect to hear from you. Basically, this is your 5W's – who's involved, what you are going to do, when you'll talk, where you'll communicate, and sure, maybe even why you do what you do (hint: it's because they'll love you for it).

What process should you have as a wedding planner to start the wedding planning process with your clients? There are two places in a wedding planner's process that are constant struggle points: the onboarding process and the budget. Today, I'm going to talk about where the struggle happens and, more importantly, how we fix it!

It's also important that your onboarding process gives your client something to do next.

Like I said, they are EXCITED. We've all experienced a client that's overly excited to get started right? But even your more relaxed clients can't help wondering what's next. Whether you give your client a questionnaire to fill out, a few recommended readings, or whatever fits your vibe, get them started with some things they can do to kind of burn off that excited energy (and still feel well cared for while you start to create room for them in your busy schedule).

Last but not least, an onboarding process shows them the next steps so that they never feel confused. Trust me when I say, few emotions are worse for a new client than confusion. A solid and consistent onboarding process prevents that from ever, ever happening.

How to Map Out Your Onboarding Process as a Wedding Planner

First, I want you to map out a four-week journey to onboard your client. That's right, four weeks. After all, as a wedding planner, you'll often work with your clients for anywhere from 6-18 months so the first four weeks really are just the beginning.

When your mapping this out, make sure to think about any extra touch points you might be missing like a welcome letter, onboarding them to your planning software, scheduling an onboarding meeting, and providing them with the deadlines for any deliverables. Map out when they can expect things for you and when you'll need things from them. One of the first discussions in the planning process is often about the budget, which brings me to my next point below.

Wedding Planner Process Must Have #2: Drafting the Budget

I probably don't need to tell you this, but your client might resist giving you a hard number on what they want to spend. In some ways, this is totally fair because most will have no idea what to expect and don't want to just throw out an arbitrary number. Some clients might also be working with more flexible budgets than others.

Whether their budget is $30,000 or $300,000, everyone wants to get the most for their money.

Because they hired you to guide them, it is very important that you educate them enough so that they feel comfortable giving you a realistic number for you to work with. On the same note, as a wedding planner, you need to be comfortable telling them what they can expect to get for the number they give you. Then, they have the opportunity to change their budget if it doesn't suit their wish list.

Why establishing their budget upfront is so important

Honestly, it's so important to understand their financial desires and limits so you can do your job effectively from the beginning. If you can't get your client to nail down a budget, you'll be in for some very painful headaches – and a lot of extra work – in the future. You'll either create their design board only to find out they can't afford half of it or be stuck elevating a more budget-friendly design that you created with your own wallet in mind. Do you really want the extra work? I know money talk can be uncomfortable – and some couples WILL avoid it like the plague – but it's a non-negotiable before any planning work can truly begin.

How to Draft A Budget with Your Clients as a Wedding Planner

First, I like to create a budget questionnaire. Give them a chance to really consider their answers. While you create yours, make sure to ask questions about where they want to splurge and where they want to save. Maybe they would never give up a live band but could live without an abundance of florals? Maybe they have their heart set on a venue with expensive catering but they are willing to cut their guest list. Ask them what their priorities are so you can truly plan and design their wedding with them in mind.

Next, it's time to talk about who is paying for what. You may have already discussed this in your initial consultation but now is the time to finalize what other people might be contributing. Is the bride's mother contributing $50,000 or is she paying for the band? If she's paying for a specific line item, are there any restrictions? Make sure to clarify as well who gets the final say if there are any disagreements over how the money should be spent.

Lastly, schedule a budget meeting. During this meeting, go over their answers and the tentative budget you've created. Take time to educate them and give them a chance to approve everything (or increase their budget) before you spend any time putting together a design board or vendor recommendations.

Reading this and realizing your own Wedding Planner Process might need a little TLC?

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  1. On your wedding day, people forget many things. Whether it’s your dress or something else more important like your husband’s ring or a guest’s present, that’s the reason they hire a professional. So make sure you have everything planned out ahead of time so that you don’t end up regretting any decisions you may make on the day of your wedding. There are a lot of mistakes that wedding planners make during their wedding process, including not coordinating with their vendors, not researching the budget, and not listening to their guests. These mistakes usually cost them time and money. I appreciate you sharing this blog with us.

  2. A wedding planning process can be a very long and tedious one. And to
    have a detailed budget in mind is also a significant point to discuss with clients, so you don’t overspend on anything. I liked your tips on drafting a wedding budget and will surely apply it soon. Thank you for sharing this blog with us. It was pretty helpful and informative.

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